Relationship astrology / Synastry
I'm trying to understand better what is happening between me and another person.
Some relationships flow easily; others touch us very deeply, challenge us or bring up reactions we don't always understand.
Relationship astrology helps us see what each person brings to the relationship, what is activated between the two charts, where there is closeness and support, and where differences, tensions or hard-to-reconcile needs may arise.
It may be for you if...
- you want to understand why a particular relationship affects you so strongly;
- there is closeness, but also tensions that keep coming back;
- you feel that you and the other person have very different needs or ways of functioning;
- you want to understand what each of you brings to the dynamic;
- the relationship is going through an important stage and you want to see more clearly what is happening between you;
- you want to better understand a couple, family, friendship or other meaningful relationship.
How we work
We start from the relationship you want to understand
You tell me what is happening between you, what concerns you and what you'd like to understand better.
We put the two charts in dialogue
We first look at how each person functions, then follow the points where the two charts meet, support or challenge each other.
We connect the astrological dynamic to the real relationship
We don't stop at labelling an aspect “good” or “bad”. We look at how it may play out between you and what can help you live the relationship more consciously.
What we can explore
- What draws you together and makes you feel connected
- Each person's emotional needs
- How you communicate and where misunderstandings arise
- Attraction and the way each of you activates the other
- The areas where you support each other
- Differences that can create tension
- Patterns that tend to repeat in the relationship
- What each of you may need to live the relationship more consciously
We're not looking for a verdict on whether two people “are compatible” or whether a relationship “should” continue.
We look at the dynamic between them, their resources, their differences and the points that call for more awareness.
What you can leave this session with
- a clearer picture of the dynamic between you;
- a better understanding of each person's needs and reactions;
- explanations for certain recurring moments of closeness or tension;
- a more nuanced view of your differences;
- reference points to help you position yourself more consciously in the relationship.
The aim isn't for me to decide what you should do with the relationship, but to give you more clarity about what is happening between you and how you choose to relate to this dynamic.
Synastry is not a compatibility score
Two charts can't be reduced to a compatibility percentage.
A relationship can hold closeness, attraction, support, differences and areas of tension all at once. Sometimes it's precisely the harder aspects that make a relationship important or that ask for the most growth.
Relationship astrology describes the dynamic; it doesn't decide the worth of a relationship or say whether two people should stay together or part.
We need both charts
A full synastry requires the birth data of both people. The exact time is very helpful, as it allows us to work with the Ascendant, the houses and the axes of the chart.
If one person's birth time is unknown, mention it in the form. We'll see what can be analysed reliably and which elements need to be set aside.
If you already have an analysis in Parental Astrology
If you already have a relationship analysis, or an analysis involving both people, and are left with a question or a dynamic you want to explore further, we can start right there.
We don't repeat what you've already received; we follow what matters to you now.
Ways to work with me
30 minutes
For a well-defined dynamic, a specific question about the relationship or a deeper look at part of an existing analysis.
60 minutes
For a broader exploration of the relationship, when we want to bring together several needs, patterns and points of interaction between the two charts.